Astagfirullah..may ALLAH forgive me what I have done.
I decide to wear my hijab when I move to Jogja on 2005. At the first time I only covered my hair with short veil that didn’t elongate down to my chest, still worn long pants with blouse or long sleeved t-shirt.
All my short pants collection was thrown away, so even at home I attempted to be a nice one. Since then my kids get used to see me either wearing my pajamas or my house long dress. Once I have to wear short pants at home due to my medical reason the kids stared at me peculiarly.
Thru time I start to like wearing gamis (a long lose gown). Especially of course the one that made from cotton. This morning when I read the book about HALAL & HARAM (ALLOWED & PROHIBITED) by Yusuf Qaradhawi, I just realize that I am still far away beyond the Islam law (syariah)…
Please forgive me ALLAH….
Apparel women in Islam
1. Covering all the body except the one that mentioned in Quran as ordinary things to show such as face and your palm.
"Say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bossoms and not display their beauty except for their husband…"(Surat An-Nur: 31)
2. Not transparent/translucent. Every Islam women are prohibited from wearing transparent or translucent clothes that will reveal the curve of the body. This kind of clothes will also reveal skin color and make people especially men interested in looking at them.
"Two (human type) from Hell experts that I have not seen it now is; people who brought the whip-whip like cows, they hit people with it, and the women who dressed but naked, walking with her shoulders and wiggle waddle , their heads like a camel hump skewed. They will not enter Paradise will not even get a smell, and very fragrant smell of Heaven has trip distance so and so. " (Narrated by Muslim).
3. Not tight and firm. Nowadays a lot of Islam women covering their hair but still they wear a very tight and firm clothes that form the curve of their body. As in hadith said “…they dressed but naked…”
*to be honest I feel so bad if I see this phenomenon because this can give wrong impression about Islam women in front of other believers view*
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4. Not wearing apparel that resemble clothes men, in both form and characteristic.
This is prohibited but most of us will be proud if known as tomboy....astagfirullah...
Women have special clothes with all its properties, and men also have special clothing, which distinguishes it from women's clothing. And women are not allowed to resemble men in terms of clothing, appearance and way of walking.
In the hadith mentioned, "Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) has cursed the men who like women and women who resemble men." (Narrated by Al-Bukhari, Saheeh).
Women have special clothes with all its properties, and men also have special clothing, which distinguishes it from women's clothing. And women are not allowed to resemble men in terms of clothing, appearance and way of walking.
In the hadith mentioned, "Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) has cursed the men who like women and women who resemble men." (Narrated by Al-Bukhari, Saheeh).
Oh Allah please forgives me because I am still wearing my long pants when I do my sport…
5. Not special apparel that design for unbeliever. Deliberateness of wearing apparel like them is prohibited by Islam as Islam has their own characteristic in their performance either in physical or inner beauty mind.
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Hopefully this will help us Moslem women to wear clothes according to Islamic law (syariah)...allahumma amin...
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